"Dear Valuable Girl,
You don't always have to be so tough, you know. There are people all around
who want to help and would jump at the chance if they knew how to help and
what you really need and want. There are so many people who love you. You
don't have to carry this alone.
Somehow it happens that we isolate ourselves over time, stuck in a mode of
survival, and forgetting that there's anything else to think about beyond how
to get through the next day....or even the next few minutes. Life is not meant
for that kind of living, even though there are stages of life that can stretch
for a long time living this way.
Try to reach out today. Call a friend and be really honest about where you are.
Try something new....a new skill, a new recipe, a new route to the same old
places....this will help you get unstuck and begin to build a live that is about
THRIVING and ENJOYING rather than surviving and enduring. You are SO STRONG and
you are so great at surviving and enduring, friend......but everyone who loves
you wants more for you than that. YOUR SOUL wants more than that too.....
you know that, right?
You can do this....there are so many smiles and laughs and new friendships and
new adventures ahead for you. Your best years have not even been lived yet...
you have so much to look forward to. Decide to LIVE BIG!"
I just love these daily e-mails with encouraging messages that I receive from the Brave Girls Club. What a great group of ladies...maybe someday I'll get to go to a Brave Girl's camp and enjoy.